Thanks mate, you would have liked the guy he was one of us and loved life, The Arsenal and family, not to mention a beer, thank you for the kind wordsDB10GOONER wrote: ↑Mon Sep 21, 2020 6:02 amWow man. What a wonderful tribute to your brother, Lefty. I'm welling up reading it mate. I'm so sorry for your loss. May Rob rest in peace.LeftfootlegendGooner wrote: ↑Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:05 pmMy brother Bob or Robert as he was called in his teaching days in Willesden Green, he was a top top guy who loved The Arsenal,died after suffering from Alhzeimers.
He was 20 years older than me and was a great all round sportsman and father and grandfather.
I still remember him from my youth when he would pop down for weekends, he was so much fun and I would cry when he would go back home.
Later on he would just turn up on my doorstep and I would invite him in and he would stay for days on end (drinking all my beer ) and we would have stupid water fights in the garden that started with my sons water guns and ended up with buckets of water
As a teenager I would get the bus and stay with him when he used to live in Southampton, he would take me to watch Hampshire play cricket, those days were magical and unforgettable.
I wasn't going to post this as it upsets me to even write it but thought he needed a mention to some fellow gooners.
Now its got me crying again, see this is what it does writing something so personal, we all have to grasp this life and live it to the full because its only brief and gone in the blink of an eye.
I've lost my eldest brother an sister (Gloria) within a year, they were quite a few years older than me but that doesn't detract from the loss.
My nephew David who played for The Arsenal youth up until he was 15 before some idiot broke his leg in a kick about in the park died at 28, his wife died 3 weeks later from which the coroner could not identify, they left 2 and 6 old children, his funeral flowers were all Arsenal colours and we all wore red ties.
I have a huge family so maybe the odds are I'm going to suffer more losses as the percentages are higher but as a family oriented man that is just hard to bare.
Sorry to drag anyone down because I know I only post jokes (and not very funny ones I know) but needed to mention these guys.
I've posted this a few times and always deleted it.
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That is a lovely story and lovely memories for you..He was brother and obviously a cherished role model. Sincerest sympathies on your loss.LeftfootlegendGooner wrote: ↑Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:05 pmMy brother Bob or Robert as he was called in his teaching days in Willesden Green, he was a top top guy who loved The Arsenal,died after suffering from Alhzeimers.
He was 20 years older than me and was a great all round sportsman and father and grandfather.
I still remember him from my youth when he would pop down for weekends, he was so much fun and I would cry when he would go back home.
Later on he would just turn up on my doorstep and I would invite him in and he would stay for days on end (drinking all my beer ) and we would have stupid water fights in the garden that started with my sons water guns and ended up with buckets of water
As a teenager I would get the bus and stay with him when he used to live in Southampton, he would take me to watch Hampshire play cricket, those days were magical and unforgettable.
I wasn't going to post this as it upsets me to even write it but thought he needed a mention to some fellow gooners.
Now its got me crying again, see this is what it does writing something so personal, we all have to grasp this life and live it to the full because its only brief and gone in the blink of an eye.
I've lost my eldest brother an sister (Gloria) within a year, they were quite a few years older than me but that doesn't detract from the loss.
My nephew David who played for The Arsenal youth up until he was 15 before some idiot broke his leg in a kick about in the park died at 28, his wife died 3 weeks later from which the coroner could not identify, they left 2 and 6 old children, his funeral flowers were all Arsenal colours and we all wore red ties.
I have a huge family so maybe the odds are I'm going to suffer more losses as the percentages are higher but as a family oriented man that is just hard to bare.
Sorry to drag anyone down because I know I only post jokes (and not very funny ones I know) but needed to mention these guys.
I've posted this a few times and always deleted it.
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That is beautifully written. You've done your brother proud there Lefty! Sounds like a good guy who lived life to the full. May he rest in peace!LeftfootlegendGooner wrote: ↑Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:05 pmMy brother Bob or Robert as he was called in his teaching days in Willesden Green, he was a top top guy who loved The Arsenal,died after suffering from Alhzeimers.
He was 20 years older than me and was a great all round sportsman and father and grandfather.
I still remember him from my youth when he would pop down for weekends, he was so much fun and I would cry when he would go back home.
Later on he would just turn up on my doorstep and I would invite him in and he would stay for days on end (drinking all my beer ) and we would have stupid water fights in the garden that started with my sons water guns and ended up with buckets of water
As a teenager I would get the bus and stay with him when he used to live in Southampton, he would take me to watch Hampshire play cricket, those days were magical and unforgettable.
I wasn't going to post this as it upsets me to even write it but thought he needed a mention to some fellow gooners.
Now its got me crying again, see this is what it does writing something so personal, we all have to grasp this life and live it to the full because its only brief and gone in the blink of an eye.
I've lost my eldest brother an sister (Gloria) within a year, they were quite a few years older than me but that doesn't detract from the loss.
My nephew David who played for The Arsenal youth up until he was 15 before some idiot broke his leg in a kick about in the park died at 28, his wife died 3 weeks later from which the coroner could not identify, they left 2 and 6 old children, his funeral flowers were all Arsenal colours and we all wore red ties.
I have a huge family so maybe the odds are I'm going to suffer more losses as the percentages are higher but as a family oriented man that is just hard to bare.
Sorry to drag anyone down because I know I only post jokes (and not very funny ones I know) but needed to mention these guys.
I've posted this a few times and always deleted it.
Nobody can take those memories away from you and as time passes its amazing how little things will just pop back into your mind. Life is as much about the memories as it is anything else.
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Fair play to you mate and brave of you to finally hit the submit button. I hope it's brought you a little bit of peace. You mention that you've got a large family so make sure you spend as much time with them as you can.
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Thank you Brady for those lovely words, much appreciatedBradywasking wrote: ↑Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:36 amThat is a lovely story and lovely memories for you..He was brother and obviously a cherished role model. Sincerest sympathies on your loss.LeftfootlegendGooner wrote: ↑Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:05 pmMy brother Bob or Robert as he was called in his teaching days in Willesden Green, he was a top top guy who loved The Arsenal,died after suffering from Alhzeimers.
He was 20 years older than me and was a great all round sportsman and father and grandfather.
I still remember him from my youth when he would pop down for weekends, he was so much fun and I would cry when he would go back home.
Later on he would just turn up on my doorstep and I would invite him in and he would stay for days on end (drinking all my beer ) and we would have stupid water fights in the garden that started with my sons water guns and ended up with buckets of water
As a teenager I would get the bus and stay with him when he used to live in Southampton, he would take me to watch Hampshire play cricket, those days were magical and unforgettable.
I wasn't going to post this as it upsets me to even write it but thought he needed a mention to some fellow gooners.
Now its got me crying again, see this is what it does writing something so personal, we all have to grasp this life and live it to the full because its only brief and gone in the blink of an eye.
I've lost my eldest brother an sister (Gloria) within a year, they were quite a few years older than me but that doesn't detract from the loss.
My nephew David who played for The Arsenal youth up until he was 15 before some idiot broke his leg in a kick about in the park died at 28, his wife died 3 weeks later from which the coroner could not identify, they left 2 and 6 old children, his funeral flowers were all Arsenal colours and we all wore red ties.
I have a huge family so maybe the odds are I'm going to suffer more losses as the percentages are higher but as a family oriented man that is just hard to bare.
Sorry to drag anyone down because I know I only post jokes (and not very funny ones I know) but needed to mention these guys.
I've posted this a few times and always deleted it.
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Thanks Clash, he was a great guy and would appreciate your kind words, yes the memories are always there and little things do remind me of him all the timeClash wrote: ↑Tue Sep 22, 2020 1:08 pmThat is beautifully written. You've done your brother proud there Lefty! Sounds like a good guy who lived life to the full. May he rest in peace!LeftfootlegendGooner wrote: ↑Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:05 pmMy brother Bob or Robert as he was called in his teaching days in Willesden Green, he was a top top guy who loved The Arsenal,died after suffering from Alhzeimers.
He was 20 years older than me and was a great all round sportsman and father and grandfather.
I still remember him from my youth when he would pop down for weekends, he was so much fun and I would cry when he would go back home.
Later on he would just turn up on my doorstep and I would invite him in and he would stay for days on end (drinking all my beer ) and we would have stupid water fights in the garden that started with my sons water guns and ended up with buckets of water
As a teenager I would get the bus and stay with him when he used to live in Southampton, he would take me to watch Hampshire play cricket, those days were magical and unforgettable.
I wasn't going to post this as it upsets me to even write it but thought he needed a mention to some fellow gooners.
Now its got me crying again, see this is what it does writing something so personal, we all have to grasp this life and live it to the full because its only brief and gone in the blink of an eye.
I've lost my eldest brother an sister (Gloria) within a year, they were quite a few years older than me but that doesn't detract from the loss.
My nephew David who played for The Arsenal youth up until he was 15 before some idiot broke his leg in a kick about in the park died at 28, his wife died 3 weeks later from which the coroner could not identify, they left 2 and 6 old children, his funeral flowers were all Arsenal colours and we all wore red ties.
I have a huge family so maybe the odds are I'm going to suffer more losses as the percentages are higher but as a family oriented man that is just hard to bare.
Sorry to drag anyone down because I know I only post jokes (and not very funny ones I know) but needed to mention these guys.
I've posted this a few times and always deleted it.
Nobody can take those memories away from you and as time passes its amazing how little things will just pop back into your mind. Life is as much about the memories as it is anything else.
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Thanks Jock, yes it took a while to submit it because I didn't want to appear to be wanting sympathy but just wanted him mentioned on this Gooner forum because he was one of us.Jock Gooner wrote: ↑Tue Sep 22, 2020 3:30 pmFair play to you mate and brave of you to finally hit the submit button. I hope it's brought you a little bit of peace. You mention that you've got a large family so make sure you spend as much time with them as you can.
Yes I love my big family and do keep in touch with them all, its been great recently to finally meet with again after this nightmare we are in, obviously that could all change but I will always be ringing them and checking that they are all good.
Thanks again mate
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I tbink I owe you guys some jokes (as bad as they are) for unloading some quite deep emotions on you but thanks again for your caring
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LeftfootlegendGooner wrote: ↑Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:05 pmMy brother Bob or Robert as he was called in his teaching days in Willesden Green, he was a top top guy who loved The Arsenal,died after suffering from Alhzeimers.
He was 20 years older than me and was a great all round sportsman and father and grandfather.
I still remember him from my youth when he would pop down for weekends, he was so much fun and I would cry when he would go back home.
Later on he would just turn up on my doorstep and I would invite him in and he would stay for days on end (drinking all my beer ) and we would have stupid water fights in the garden that started with my sons water guns and ended up with buckets of water
As a teenager I would get the bus and stay with him when he used to live in Southampton, he would take me to watch Hampshire play cricket, those days were magical and unforgettable.
I wasn't going to post this as it upsets me to even write it but thought he needed a mention to some fellow gooners.
Now its got me crying again, see this is what it does writing something so personal, we all have to grasp this life and live it to the full because its only brief and gone in the blink of an eye.
I've lost my eldest brother an sister (Gloria) within a year, they were quite a few years older than me but that doesn't detract from the loss.
My nephew David who played for The Arsenal youth up until he was 15 before some idiot broke his leg in a kick about in the park died at 28, his wife died 3 weeks later from which the coroner could not identify, they left 2 and 6 old children, his funeral flowers were all Arsenal colours and we all wore red ties.
I have a huge family so maybe the odds are I'm going to suffer more losses as the percentages are higher but as a family oriented man that is just hard to bare.
Sorry to drag anyone down because I know I only post jokes (and not very funny ones I know) but needed to mention these guys.
I've posted this a few times and always deleted it.
Lefty, I’ve only just been in the basement to read this, as others have said, it’s a lovely post, and hope it has helped you in the grieving process to finally post it as a way to remember him.
Remember the goof times you shared together to get you through the bad days
Best wishes mate
Ps not all your jokes are that bad
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Cheers Stu, much appreciated, yes it has helped and I do remember all the great times we had.StuartL wrote: ↑Sun Oct 18, 2020 6:13 pmLeftfootlegendGooner wrote: ↑Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:05 pmMy brother Bob or Robert as he was called in his teaching days in Willesden Green, he was a top top guy who loved The Arsenal,died after suffering from Alhzeimers.
He was 20 years older than me and was a great all round sportsman and father and grandfather.
I still remember him from my youth when he would pop down for weekends, he was so much fun and I would cry when he would go back home.
Later on he would just turn up on my doorstep and I would invite him in and he would stay for days on end (drinking all my beer ) and we would have stupid water fights in the garden that started with my sons water guns and ended up with buckets of water
As a teenager I would get the bus and stay with him when he used to live in Southampton, he would take me to watch Hampshire play cricket, those days were magical and unforgettable.
I wasn't going to post this as it upsets me to even write it but thought he needed a mention to some fellow gooners.
Now its got me crying again, see this is what it does writing something so personal, we all have to grasp this life and live it to the full because its only brief and gone in the blink of an eye.
I've lost my eldest brother an sister (Gloria) within a year, they were quite a few years older than me but that doesn't detract from the loss.
My nephew David who played for The Arsenal youth up until he was 15 before some idiot broke his leg in a kick about in the park died at 28, his wife died 3 weeks later from which the coroner could not identify, they left 2 and 6 old children, his funeral flowers were all Arsenal colours and we all wore red ties.
I have a huge family so maybe the odds are I'm going to suffer more losses as the percentages are higher but as a family oriented man that is just hard to bare.
Sorry to drag anyone down because I know I only post jokes (and not very funny ones I know) but needed to mention these guys.
I've posted this a few times and always deleted it.
Lefty, I’ve only just been in the basement to read this, as others have said, it’s a lovely post, and hope it has helped you in the grieving process to finally post it as a way to remember him.
Remember the goof times you shared together to get you through the bad days
Best wishes mate
Ps not all your jokes are that bad
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so happy for him to get the win against PL opposition. looking out for them in the draw tmr
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Simply Amazing.... Just read an advance copy of this (paperback) given to me by the owner of the local bookstore where I buy all my books (fuck Amazon! ), also where I spend endless hours perusing the shelves..There's something about Books (paper one's rather than the new electric / tablet versions - which I did try but just can't get on with even though I know they are Environmentally better etc)
Her story is not only a seriously engrossing read, but reveals how she: in any other terms a true "Heroine" and an absolutely amazing young polish woman who fought the Nazi's on her own terms in WW2... The hardback is available - Highly recommended. (the Paperback due in Spring of 2025 I think?)
The BBC have done a short piece on her: Elżbieta Zawacka: Titled The woman who left Britain to parachute into Nazi-occupied Poland
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cneej0r2n7go
Her Wikipedia page:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elżbieta_Zawacka
Her story is not only a seriously engrossing read, but reveals how she: in any other terms a true "Heroine" and an absolutely amazing young polish woman who fought the Nazi's on her own terms in WW2... The hardback is available - Highly recommended. (the Paperback due in Spring of 2025 I think?)
The BBC have done a short piece on her: Elżbieta Zawacka: Titled The woman who left Britain to parachute into Nazi-occupied Poland
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cneej0r2n7go
Her Wikipedia page:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elżbieta_Zawacka
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There's a similar book that's been out for a while called 'Moondrop to Gascony'.
It's a true story of a 20 year old woman who was part of the S.O.E.(special operations executive) who parachuted into occupied SW France to help the resistance in the build up to the D-Day landings. I live in the area she was dropped into. Pretty amazing for a 20yo woman to do such a thing. A great story.
There are monuments all around this part of France to the resistance and people who were murdered in retaliation by the Nazi's. In my village there is a cabin down in the woods that has been preserved as a memorial because it was a meeting place of the local resistance. 20 men were in a meeting there one night and a collaborator informed the Germans who surrounded the cabin and killed all 20 of them. To this day you find in pretty much every village in this part of France, there are some French families who do not speak to others, they turn their backs on people in the streets and it's all because someone in their family back in the 40's was a 'collaborator'. They never forgive or forget.
It's a true story of a 20 year old woman who was part of the S.O.E.(special operations executive) who parachuted into occupied SW France to help the resistance in the build up to the D-Day landings. I live in the area she was dropped into. Pretty amazing for a 20yo woman to do such a thing. A great story.
There are monuments all around this part of France to the resistance and people who were murdered in retaliation by the Nazi's. In my village there is a cabin down in the woods that has been preserved as a memorial because it was a meeting place of the local resistance. 20 men were in a meeting there one night and a collaborator informed the Germans who surrounded the cabin and killed all 20 of them. To this day you find in pretty much every village in this part of France, there are some French families who do not speak to others, they turn their backs on people in the streets and it's all because someone in their family back in the 40's was a 'collaborator'. They never forgive or forget.
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TeeCee wrote: ↑Wed Aug 07, 2024 6:05 amThere's a similar book that's been out for a while called 'Moondrop to Gascony'.
It's a true story of a 20 year old woman who was part of the S.O.E.(special operations executive) who parachuted into occupied SW France to help the resistance in the build up to the D-Day landings. I live in the area she was dropped into. Pretty amazing for a 20yo woman to do such a thing. A great story.
There are monuments all around this part of France to the resistance and people who were murdered in retaliation by the Nazi's. In my village there is a cabin down in the woods that has been preserved as a memorial because it was a meeting place of the local resistance. 20 men were in a meeting there one night and a collaborator informed the Germans who surrounded the cabin and killed all 20 of them. To this day you find in pretty much every village in this part of France, there are some French families who do not speak to others, they turn their backs on people in the streets and it's all because someone in their family back in the 40's was a 'collaborator'. They never forgive or forget.
Yes, I can well believe it. A part of me agrees, but also I sometimes think time let try & forgive and let it heal especially as their off-spring are not responsible. A bit like someone I knew who "Hated" the Japanese; as in 'Any' Japanese person ... Because of what his grandfather went through as a POW in Burma,
Who are we to say huh?
Anyway
Thanks Tee Cee I will check the book out. Since reading the book about Elżbieta Zawacka (aka: Agent Zo), I came across a book of the same genre and ilk called "Christine : SOE Agent And Churchill's Favourite Spy", again another young woman who fought the Nazi's from within their own ranks/invading troops. It makes me realise just how Brave and Courageously Amazing many young people were back then. I don't want to disparage the young people of today, but I sometimes wonder how many of them would Volunteer to undertake such Frightening work.. living 25 hours a day in fear for one's capture, torture and execution.
Some time ago (20 - 25 years ? or so?) there was a TV documentary; again I'm guessing but It was eitherBBC or Channel 4 titles something like "Torches in the field/s"??? And was about 4 young women in the Belgian / French resistance throughout WW2. I've tried googling and searching for it but have come up with nothing connected. The reason for my interest in that specifically is that my Ex-missus' Mother was one of them, she passed about 10 years ago, but when & if the mood and time was right she would tell us stories of her escapades and some of the means they used to evade the Nazi's etc A Very Brave Woman; smuggling a radio and / or guns in Large Farm Milk Churns on the back of a horse drawn dray , she never ever 'boasted' but occasionally when asked, she might share a story or two. I knew nothing of this until about 5 years before she died. (RIP)
Edit: When she passed her grave / head stone read: "vivre libre ou mourir" ( live free or die).